Adulting with Autism

Dating, Boundaries & Burnout: Therapist Nicole Penrod on Mixed-Neurotype Love, Creative Healing & Autistic Adulting

April Ratchford MS OT/L

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Today I’m sitting down with Nicole Penrod, MFT—a therapist and writer who works with neurodivergent adults, creatives, and mixed-neurotype couples. We dig into the real-world stuff: how to spot autistic burnout before it flattens you, unmask without losing your identity, set boundaries that actually stick, and navigate dating, breakups, and repair when ADHD and autism meet. Nicole also shares low-overwhelm tools (structured journaling, decision frameworks, nervous-system check-ins) you can start using today.

You’ll learn:

  • Burnout vs. depression vs. “I’m just done”—how to tell the difference
  • Unmasking with safety: scripts for work, friends, and partners
  • Mixed-neurotype conflict: reduce shame, raise clarity, repair faster
  • Dating while autistic/ADHD: green flags, hard passes, and pacing
  • Creativity as regulation: using story to process big feelings
  • What therapists wish ND clients knew about progress and relapse

About Nicole:
Nicole Penrod is a Marriage & Family Therapist specializing in creatives, the entertainment industry, neurodivergent adults, and mixed-neurotype relationships. She blends clinical tools with practical, compassionate coaching to help you heal, grow, and move forward.


 Events & Summits
• Social Connections Summit (Patterns of Possibility): https://www.patternsofpossibility.com/scs2025
• Thrive / NeuroThrive Autism Workshop (my link): https://autismsupport.live/july-aprilratchford


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Connect with Nicole
• Website: NicolePenrodMFT.com
• Instagram: @activate_resilience

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