Adulting with Autism

Daniel Durany on Real-World Adulting: Jobs, Dating, Driving, Budgeting & Self-Advocacy (Autism)

April Ratchford MS OT/L

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Autism advocate, author, and year-round sports official Daniel Durany joins me to get practical about adulting: keeping a job (not just getting one), dating without panic, building independence behind the wheel, and budgeting so freedom lasts. Daniel’s spoken across the country (Texas State Autism Conference, Oklahoma State Autism Conference ’14 & ’24, Virginia Tech keynote 2023, Joining Forces 2025) and served on the Texas Council on Autism & PDD—so this is real talk with receipts.

What you’ll learn

  • Work that sticks: mentors, social savvy, and asking for reasonable accommodations
  • Self-advocacy 101 → 401: IEP/504 tips that translate to adult life and HR
  • Dating on purpose: pace, boundaries, and reading signals without spiraling
  • Driving independence: step-by-step progression (lot → neighborhood → roads → highway)
  • Money basics that actually work: simple tracking, guardrails, and weekly reviews
  • Dopamine management: gaming vs. outdoor reps—how to rebalance, not “quit”
  • Rural resources: how to build the group you wish existed

About Daniel

  • Autism speaker, writer, consultant, mentor; founded an Asperger’s support group with FEAT-NT
  • Member, Texas Council on Autism & PDD
  • Year-round sports official (softball, basketball, volleyball) and sports analyst/writer

Links & resources

🎟️ NeuroThrive Autism Workshop (Dr. Ana Villalaz) — 10+ hrs of expert sessions + replays
https://autismsupport.live/ntsalespage-july-step?am_id=aprilratchford

🤝 Social Connections Summit — tools for authentic relationships & community
https://www.patternsofpossibility.com/scs2025

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